You may think that playing 2-3 gigs a month at dingy venues and bars is getting your band nowhere; but often times the hustle and time you put into playing gigs will begin benefiting your carreer.
Our friends at DIY Musician have posted a great read where you can identify when your grind is starting to pay off; so keep working hard!
http://diymusician.cdbaby.com/musician-tips/7-signs-your-grind-is-finally-paying-off/